Wednesday, October 31, 2007

~100 Things about me~


Here are 100 things about me that you probably new, maybe not, and also of things I have managed to accomplish in my life that i'm proud of. I always want people to know as much about me as possible, if for nothing else, just to have a great eulogy at my funeral hopefully many many many many years down the road. HA! Many may find that morbid, but as an LDS woman, I really dont. I think its important. My husbands family is in the funeral business, so death is a matter of life around our family. I hope that someone will learn something about me, feel inspired, or just plain giggle out loud. Enjoy!

1.) When I was 3 I broke my elbow while my dad gave me a horsey ride, and almost had to have my arm amputated after many hours of circulation loss, trying to find a hospital that would take me in. Thank heavens for an adament mother!

2.) I have a social fear, and was very Agoraphobic as a teen. I outgrew the Agoraphobia, but still find it hard to relate to people, and cant bring myself to talk on the phone.

3.) I have a costume, jewelry, and shoe collection specifically for any theme parties that might get planned. I live for theme party planning!!

4.) Im a mother of 3 gorgeous children...who drive me absolutely INSANE!! Im not kidding..I used to be normal before I became a parent.

5.) I have a mound of laundry taller then my youngest child at all times in my laundry room. Laundry is pure evil.

6.) I have an obsession with Howard Hughes

7.) I have spent years doing genealogy and i LOVE IT! Its my passion and I feel very strongly about it. Ive gone back to the 1500's so far and hope to get as far back as possible.

8.)As a young 21 year old, I miscarried twins, then 9 months after that, delivered a tiny son who passed away an hour later of Trisomy 18. I lost 3 kids in less then a year...i know that was the start of a long road of depression i'm still battling to this day.

9.) I love to write! Im horrible at it..I have poor grammer, bad puncuation and spelling..but it makes me truly happy! I enjoy writing stupid comedies involving my friends as characters. I have written script stories for Kylee and her friends as well. I often times will start something and then not feel inspired to finish it. Its a bad habit i possess. I will, however, be finishing up a funny short novel called Super Group very soon...an amazing feat for me!

10.) I absolutely adore music!! Im a classic rock and 80's girl all the way! I was not blessed with any music talent, but what I due lack, I make for in musical knowledge. I will fully kick bum in any music trivia contest. I even have a trophy to prove that. HA!

11.) I was one of 20 girls in the whole US to be selected for a popular plus size photoshoot contest in California...unfortunately I had to turn it down cuz of the too risque nature or the shoot.

12.) I love to go to concerts..I went to 7 last year alone!

13.) My favorite song is Mandoline Rain by Bruce Hornsby..dont ask me why. I just feel something for it.

14.) I can draw fairly well..It used to be a passion of mine, until I became a mom and found other ways to inspire me. I dont do it anymore, which makes me sad. I just dont have the motivation I once did.

15.) I used to speak fluent German as a child when we lived overseas. I lost the ability.

16.) I LOVE the Queen Mary Ship. She is amazing! I could spend all day on her decks pondering. I dont know why, but I feel a strange connection. Its very "The Shining", I know..

17.) I love the Fall! Nothing makes me happier then looking at the changing leaves. I guess its because my favorite colors are fall colors. oranges, golds, dark purples and rich reds...gorgeous!!

18.) Ive had rheumatoid arthritis since I can remember...as a child I was able to get out of PE and couldnt walk the mall from one end to the other without tears. Im finding that as I get older, im becoming more immobile which sucks!!

19.) I love all things retro, vintage, and really funky! i dont care what it is!

20.) I deeply sympathise with Charlie Brown..and I adore the peanuts characters. Oddly enough tho, my family hasnt picked up on this over the years, so I dont have any collections or anything. They were too busy buying Kasi her Barbies and Kylee her Wizard of Oz. teehee

21.) Muscle cars make me tingle in my private places. NO JOKE! I would give anything to have a 68 Camaro or a GTO

22.) I despise the acts of hypocrissy and lying...Ive always been very straight forward and honest in my beliefs as well as my frienships, and wish that others would do me the same courtesy...unfortunately because of this, I tend to offend people a lot.

23.) I bite my nails...fingernail clippers give me the willies

24.) Fish freak me the heck out!!!

25.) I want to make a keepsake box of all the things that were important to me for my kids later on.

26.) I HATE A CLUTTERED HOUSE!! You would never know it by my house right now (as I live in a 2 bedroom hut with three kids.) My husband is a huge pack rat, and we butt heads a lot.Ive lost the war. I cant cope or houseclean in an over growth of mess...so my house is always dirty..sorry for all who visit! If i had it my way, most of the house would be at the Good Will.

27.) My happiest place to be is in california with my family at DisneyLand! I love making memories with my family. Huntington Beach where my folks live, has become my ultimate dream place to live..and my joints would thank me daily, cuz washington is so cold!! I lost that war with jason too, so i'll be living here forever...haha

28.) Im always happiest when my husband is happy with his band. He loves music as much as I, but he was blessed with an extreme amount of talent, which im all too pleased to support. I have made many sacrifices trying to keep him happy with his insturments, pa systems, taking up half my living room with stuff, etc...its worth it! I love my kids being involved in a musical household.

29.) I yell a lot. Im not proud of it and I dont like how I feel when I do it...but its either that or dangle my kids out the window. They'll thank me later!

30.) I love crafts and projects!!!

31.) I have a disco ball hanging in my closet and in my living room at all times.

32.) I hate to read!! Ironic since I love to write...

33.) I have a bad snacking habit..If I could make another food group it would be Jr. Mints...

34.) pizza+ garlic sauce= love

35.) My favorite movies are GhostBusters, Caddy Shack, and Monty Python and the Holy Grail...I love to laugh!

36.) I have an odd sense of humor...I laugh LOUDLY A LOT...

37.) Ive sort of become a nerd over the years, succombing to the wiles of Dungeons and Dragons, watching Red Dwarf, and even writing a fantasy novel...thanks Jason!

38.) I collect celestial things (sun, moon, stars..)

39.) I love highheels!! the saucier the better...

40.) I had my temple recommend taken away for a while, but now I have it back, and nothing is going to make it disappear again!!

41.) I cant live without my camera

42.) I love christmas best when we make crowns and play games, then give each other home made gifts, like bags of hazelnuts and cookies..I adore the simplicity and heartfelt feelings behind it.

43.) I wish I could dance....its one thing that baffles me, and I would give anything to know how to do it well.

44.) i love going to plays...I never can afford to, but I love it way more then TV

45.) I love the Spruce Goose!

46.) I want to visit Tahiti and stay in a bungalow on the water

47.) When I was 7, I went skinny dipping in the fountain of an old folks home in Germany...my parents still dont believe me.

48.) Im very accident prone...

49.) I love the smell of Patchouli tho most hate it..and I enjoy pumpkin spice and grapefruit scents

50.) I hate that im now old enough to think about doing a daily skin care ritual..

51.) Ground meat and seafood make me retch

52.) I love washing dishes in hot water..it actually calms me down. I wouldnt know what to do with a dishwasher..

53.) I love Sunflowers

54.) Ive always wanted to learn how to ride a dirtbike

55.) i'm very competative....i get it from my dad

56.) I love my children more then anything, and hope that they dont hate me when theyre older because of my poor mothering..im not a natural born parent and it doesnt come easy for me

57.) Im not your typical mormon gal..I wear concert tees and converses to home-making..I cant quilt or can, nor do I want to. I love the gospel, but despise the 'molly mormon jumpsuit dresses'..I have, however, over the years aquired the flabby relief society arms I once vowed never to have...thats karma!

58.) Oh! Im a firm believer in Karma..

59.) I once wrote and directed a top billing play in highschool that people actually paid to see!

60.) Im a shopaholic..

61.) I make the best home made mac and cheese and sour cream chicken EVER!

62.) I own a wheat grinder and make my own wheat bread...tho im domestically disabled

63.) I was once a Passion Party consultant...shocking isnt it?

64.) My dream job would be a radio dj, or to work within the spa industry

65.) Ive had a crush on my current husband since the 8th grade

66.) I had an ugly birthmark mole removed from my back, that my sister and granmother all had as well.

67.) I have the tiniest hands ever!! its pretty carnie-like

68.) i hate confrontation..it makes me ill

69.) I married Jason immediately after my divorce to Scott..no dating.

70.) I would LOVE to have a boob job/ tummy tuck

71.) I am the worst person with math...i even had handicapped kids in my math class in highschool, if thats any indicator.

72.) I have to have my bed made first thing, or my day is ruined

73.)Im addicted to myspace surveys..haha

74.) Im the most non-judgemental person i know, but i do show true concern for people..i guess theres a fine line there that people dont seem to understand. If I were truly judgemental, I wouldnt have drag queens and athiests as friends...which I do!

75.) Im a magnet for drama!! I hate it, but people have never understood me properly which leads to lots of upset. apparently I dont play well with others.

76.) I have no filter...things just come out of my mouth like the honesty of a child. I apologise a lot.

77.) I DO NOT believe in hormonal birth control...I dont feel its smart to fool with mother nature.

78.) im known as the "kooky overly enthusiastic" friend...

79.) im easily excited..and also easily scared or overly emotional..my feelings have always come in excess

80.) i would give anything to go to the Salt Lake Temple and hear the Mormon Tabernacle Choir in a holiday concert..i get goosebumps thinking about it.

81.) I could eat grilled meat every night of the week...oh wait, I do! thanks jason!

82.) Im like a child at amusement parks!

83.) I have zero patience or coping skills

84.) I love an ice cold pepsi

85.) i cant live without a pair of funky earrings, eyeliner, and lipgloss

86.) ive always wanted a dining room with a brick or stone fireplace in it..its so cozy!

87.) I grew up with rats and ferrets as pets

88.) I dont dust...at all

89.) im a 4 year seminary graduate and one of the few girls to get a Young Women of Excellence award...It saddens me that those programs arent as enforced by parents as they once were. I can also still say all 13 articles of faith by heart.

90.) I love all things sparkly!

91.) i wont swim in the ocean because I fear sharks

92.) Pumpkins make me happy

93.) i adore mosaics

94.) Ive always wanted to be a perfect little baker...but im bad at it, and i dont really enjoy it!

95.) I love warehouse work!! Its the most fun time ive had working..

96.) I think a lot about charity and giving back..I would love to start volunteering at the bishops storehouse, but I cant until skylar is in school full time. A lot of people dislike Angelina Jolie but im awe inspired by her humanitarian work. she will be so blessed for that.

97.) I honestly wouldnt mind living the Amish life, as weird as that sounds...they are simple, happy, productive, forgiving, close, family oriented people, and live everyday honestly and firmly in their beliefs without outside influences...ive lived with lots of outside experience and im ready to climb into their world! (minus the beards)

98.) I want to take a tour of Palmyra, Navou, etc...to go to the sacred grove..to visit the temples..to walk where they walked.

99.) My wish for my children, is that they grow up to be happy, spiritual, successful, charitable, creative, full of humor, humble, and loving people. Despite how badly im screwing them up right now.

100.) Im cold all the time!!! I mean like a popcicle..Feel these hands!:0)~

Monday, October 22, 2007

Wahoo!!


After all of the waiting and hard work to get where I am today, I was able to recieve my Temple Recommend last sunday. Words can't describe how lost i've been without it these past few years. I plan to take full advantage of it and make monthly trips to Seattle. Its the most peaceful place on earth and I look forward to the joy it will once again bring into my life.

Friday, October 19, 2007

Live life like a Rockstar!


I just want to take a moment and praise my sweetheart for a job well done. He has been wanting so badly to get back with his highschool friends to reform their band, and over the past summer have been able to hold regular practices at our home (ours being the only place to have drums, guitars, bass, amps, and microphone stands already equiped.) They chose the name Back Hand, and will be having their first gig on december 27th. Im so excited for them! They are all ecstatic to have an audience. Their music consists of 90's alternative cover songs (what they played in highschool,) so its very nostalgic when they get together. I'm so happy my husband is able to share his talents with others and to live out a bit of his dream. I'm enjoying being a "bandaid/squealing groupie!" haha

Thursday, October 18, 2007

MURDER!


Last Saturday I had the opportunity to host a really cool 1920's murder mystery party for halloween. I usually hold at least one a year, but this years I decided to go all out for it. My sister and my friend Crystal painted sets to create the look of a bookstore on the front of my house, and we recreated a speak-easy on the inside of my house. It was fabulous!! We served a good old fashioned spaghetti dinner, cesar salads, garlic bread, cupcakes, and brownies, with some green olives on toothpicks, and bottles of martinellis. Good eats! Everyone got really into their characters and came dressed to kill. We stayed in character all night (me and Sara holding it together with our Bronx accents,) and it was hysterical the amount of quotes we managed to get out of our characters as well. Hans even went the extra mile and made us up some mug shot boards, a height chart, and took polaroids of everyone as a neat souvinier at the end of the party. What a riot! Thanks to everyone who participated. You made the night awesome!!

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Almost A Smuckers Babe!


Happy birthday to Skylars great great grandma Pays, who turned 99 today!! Born in 1908 of this date, I couldnt imagine how much life that woman has seen. I'm so grateful the children have had the chance to see and hear from such a seasoned woman, and hope they are able to appreciate that in their lives later on. Here is a precious photo of all the generation of women, from the birthday girl, to great gramma Davies, to gramma Shank, to me as the daughter-in-law, to my baby girls. Lets see if she makes onto the TODAY show next year, as one of Willard Scotts SMUCKERS BABES!

Life Lessons with Eric~The Piano


I'm pleased to announce that Eric has started piano lessons with my dear friend Robyn Richards. I've always wanted him to. Since before Eric could walk, he's always had a fascination with playing it. He is quite the destructive little tyrant with most things, but where it concerns the piano and playing it, he has always been gentle and serious. A few months ago he asked me if he could take lessons. I am so pleased that he is finally ready, and under his own curiosity. He absolutely loves it so far. His lessons are very simple, of course, so we'll see how things go as he progresses to harder lessons in the future. I pray that he sticks with it. Luckily for me, Robyn has practice charts she keeps track of, and if Eric gets 6 stickers in a row he will get to choose a fabulous prize from her basket (consisting of packages of chocolate bars, schools supplies, fun toys, etc..) He is determined to get that large package of Snickers. haha. I'm so happy for my family who supports him in this life lesson.